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“He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life.” – Muhammad Ali


“Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.” – Albert Einstein

“There is nothing like returning to a place that remains unchanged to find the ways you yourself have altered.” – Nelson Mandela

“Photography is a weapon to what is wrong out there. It’s bearing witness to the truth.” – Brent Stirton

One of the greatest gifts you can give yourself is the ability to be honest about who you are.

This is a tough one. What will be your choice?

One day, during an evening class for adults, the Psychology Teacher entered the class and told students, “Let’s all play a game!” “ What Game?”
The Teacher asked one of the students to volunteer. A lady, Adiza came forward.

The Teacher asked her to write 30 names of most important people in her life on blackboard. Adiza wrote names of her family members, relatives, friends, her colleagues and her neighbours.

The Teacher told her to erase 3 names that Adiza considered most unimportant. Adiza erased names of her colleagues. The Teacher again told her to delete 5 more names. Adiza erased her neighbour’s names.

This went on until there were just four names left on the blackboard. These were names of her mother, father, husband and the only son. The entire class became silent realizing that this wasn’t a game anymore for Adiza alone.

Now, The Teacher told her to delete two more names. It was a very difficult choice for Adiza. She unwillingly deleted her parents names. “Please delete one more” said the Teacher. Adiza became very nervous and with trembling hands and tears in her eyes she deleted her son’s name. Adiza cried painfully.

The Teacher told Adiza to take her seat. After a while Teacher asked “why your husband?? The parents are the ones that nurtured you, and the son is the one you gave birth to? And you can always find another husband!” Total silence in the class. Everyone was curious to know her response.

Adiza calmly and slowly said, “One day my parents will pass away before me. My son may also leave me when he grows old, for his studies or business or whatever reason. The only one who will truly share his entire life with me, is my Husband”.

All the students stood up and applauded for her for sharing this truth of life.

Always value your life partner, it’s not only for husbands but wives as well. Those reading this and have made up your mind to cheat on your partners be careful. Many too already in the act. Please look behind and turn around for your marriage and/or relationship will be better and happier when the dust settles. Remember you started it and and you can end it.

Cherish him/her because he/she is going to be the one you will ever need one day.

Partners too be willing to forgive because it is spiritually backed by the:

Qur ‘an:
(Everything in the heavens and everything in the earth belongs to Allah. He forgives whoever He wills and punishes whoever He wills. Allah is Ever -Forgiving, Most Merciful. (Surat Al ‘Imran, 129)

and also by the

(For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: Matthew 6:14 KJV)

NB: From the internet but modified

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